ok im sure i mentions my friend dave and how i said he told me he cant work on cars unless he is getting paid for them, well i spoke to him today, he sent an thing to my facebook, anywho i told him how upset i was, turns out he didnt mean wat he said and i took it all wrong, we talked alot in e mails today and explained to me wat he meant, and it was not was i thought, so a huge weight is lifted off me, and while my back is still hurting, soemthing that has added to stress is passed